Merry Christmas From Our Blended Family

Blending two families into one isn't easy. But it is worth all of the hard work it takes to call all of these amazing people.... FAMILY.

A wise step-dad recently said to me, "When step parenting gets tough, I remind myself that Joseph was a step-father to Jesus." Wow. We think we have it hard... try step-parenting the Son of God.

It's just a little perspective. Step-dads and moms: this one is for YOU. Choosing to co-parent your spouse's children is a difficult but noble thing. Not a lot of people choose to do it at all, much less with love and dedication. And it's a largely thankless job. Sometimes you don't even get thanks from your spouse, much less the kids! But I want you to know that no matter what the situation, it is a privilege to impact and influence the life of a child. So don't grow weary in well-doing. And remember, a lot of the issues they may have with you, they would probably have with anyone in your shoes. Try not to take it personal. Try a gentler approach with them and if you're a hot-head, take a Love and Logic Course. You have no idea how your life can affect the lives of the children that you love (for the good and the bad). It's worth every effort on our part to build up the kids God gave us, no matter how they came to us.

On behalf of the kids you are voluntarily loving, providing for, taking care of... I thank you. Good for you. Keep it up. Those seeds ALWAYS yield a harvest.

And if your spouse is step-parenting your kids, this is the perfect time of year to express your gratitude.

Merry Christmas to your Beautiful Families, Blended or Not.